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[pennie_dreadful]

Having a housemate who used to have money but no longer does is...occassionally...mind asplodey. For the most part he's fine, he's not, like, overtly snobbish, and he's always had jobs and knows how to do housework and cook and stuff--he does most of the cooking and more than his fair share of cleaning, but he just got hired as a store manager and figures they'll offer him at least $18 an hour, if not what the old manager made which was $22, did the math in his head and said that's only $40 grand a year, who can live on that? he used to make that in a month, and all I could do was look at him funny and tell him that yeah, if he's dead set on buying another Jaguar and a huge house filled with designer furniture, 40 grand ain't a lot, but I do well enough for myself on $22,000, driving a Kia and living in a modest apartment. Sooooo. It's...he's not a bad person, and generally he's a likeable guy, but he has no baseline for what it's like to be not rich, despite the fact that he's not anymore. And sometimes he forgets I've never had money, and I forget he's not always been poor, and I want to smack him, sometimes.

Like a few weeks ago, he asked me why I didn't have a Cuisinart or a Kitchenaide since I went to culinary school. Like??? The fuck does me having gone to culinary school have to do with what type of kitchen appliances I do or do not own? They cost like $400? How the fuck am I gonna justify spending that much on something nonessential?

*grumbling*$40k isn't a lot of money, buddy do you know what I could do with $40k a year? Kick out all you housemates for starters...

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[pennie_dreadful]

I have no idea if or how much of that's an exageration but...he told me how much he paid in income tax last year, and it was...a whole fucking lot. So idk.